Chakras According to The Law of One: How to Balance the Sacral Chakra

AN EXTENSIVE GUIDE TO THE ORANGE RAY ENERGY CENTER — THE CHAKRA OF SELF-MASTERY AND PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS

We’re working our way up the energy pipeline and exploring the chakra system one chakra at a time. And in today’s article, we’ll explore the second energy center, which is the Sacral Chakra (or the Orange Ray Energy Center as it is referred to in the Law of One Material).

Our Orange Ray Chakra deals with our emotions, personal identity, and the dynamics of our one-on-one relationships with other individuals.

So, for instance, if you’re unhappy with yourself or with another individual, you can easily create a blockage in your Sacral Chakra.

We’ll take an in-depth look at how the way in which we relate to ourselves and those we have personal relationships with can affect our Sacral Chakra.

Plus, you’ll learn how to identify and clear blockages within your Orange Ray Energy Center.

Then I’ll leave you with a few techniques to balance your Sacral Chakra so we can move on to the next energy center in our energy pipeline — the Solar Plexus or Yellow Ray.

SIDE NOTE: If you’re new to The Ra Material: The Law of One, it’s essentially a blueprint for life and spiritual evolution that offers us its own perspective on the chakra system. To learn more about The Law of One and for a recap of the seven energy centers that make up our energy body, be sure to read my first article in this series, Chakras According to The Law of One: Overview of the Seven Energy Centers.

Table of Contents

1. What Is the Orange Ray Energy Center?
2. Our Relationship with Self and the Orange Ray Center
   2.1 What Causes Blockages in Our Personal Identity
   2.2 How to Clear and Heal Relationship to Self Distortions
3. Our Personal Relationships with Others and the Orange Ray Center
   3.1 What Causes Blockages in Our Relationships
   3.2 How to Clear and Heal Our Personal Relationship Distortions
4. Impact of Communication Devices and Distractions on Our Relationships
5. Sexual Energy Transfer at the Orange Ray Level
   5.1 How We Become Blocked at the Sacral Chakra
   5.2 How Sexual Energy Can Block Spiritual Progression
   5.3 How to Clear and Heal Orange Ray Blockage
6. 5 Ways to Balance the Orange Ray Energy Center
   6.1 Daily Review + Emotional Balancing
   6.2 Ho’oponopono Meditation
   6.3 Contemplation + Journaling
   6.4 Practice Self-Love
   6.5 Shadow Work
7. More Powerful Resources + Tools

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What is the Orange Ray Energy Center?

The Orange Ray Energy Center is the chakra that vibrates at the frequency of the color orange. And it’s located in the belly, along the spine seated between the Root Chakra (or Red Ray) and the Solar Plexus Chakra (or Yellow Ray).

It’s our emotional and personal energy center, and blockages often are expressed as personal eccentricities or distortions with regard to self-conscious understanding or acceptance of self.

And unlike the Root Chakra, the Sacral Chakra is able to “bloom” into more brilliance and clarity as we become better able to keep this energy center clear.

It’s also our second energy center along the energy pipeline and is associated with the 2^nd Density — which is the density of growth and movement.

In the 2^nd Density plants and animals came into being. Actually, our physical bodies themselves, before our soul enters into them, are orange-ray in nature, as are all the animals and plants of Earth.

And it’s also the density in which consciousness became individualized and evolved by developing awareness of ‘other’ (or different portions of itself) through interaction and communication.

Because of this development of communication, entities were able to form personal relationships with other individuals.

So, the orange-ray energies which we experience in our daily lives are all about loving ourselves and loving others we relate to on a one-on-one basis.

The Sacral Chakra is Our Personal Powerhouse

Ok, so we’ve established that the Orange Ray deals with mastering the relationship we have with ourselves and our individual relationships with other people on a one-on-one basis.

But it also handles our personal power over one’s own self and over other individual selves.

What is that power?

It is our power to give or withhold love, acceptance, forgiveness and compassion. It is our power to keep our promises and to treat people ethically, fairly and generously.

And before we use this power on anyone else, we need to use it on ourselves. We need to learn to accept ourselves and to treat ourselves with respect.

When we accept and love ourselves, we can then reflect that respect onto others.

Before we become spiritual seekers, we think, plan and scheme to get ahead in the game of life.

We grab that parking place. Persuade that customer to buy what we’re selling. And manipulate others to bend to our will.

We do whatever it takes to come out on top. And we believe the main objective is to win.

But to spiritually evolve and graduate to the next level, we must move beyond that way of thinking. We must become the love we seek.

And as we rise up the energy pipeline, the main point is to clear out old distortions and clear the way for the energy of the Creator (love/light) to move through us.

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Our Relationship with Self and the Orange Ray Center

The first aspect of the Orange Ray we’re going to take a look at is the relationship we have with our own self.

One, know yourself. Two, accept yourself. Three, become the Creator. The third step is that step which, when accomplished, renders one the most humble servant of all, transparent in personality and completely able to know and accept other-selves.

–The Law of One, session 74.11

As Ra states, we must first know ourselves. That means taking time to go within, away from the distractions of our everyday life, and getting comfortable in your own skin.

Finding out what makes you tick and who you really are. And discovering the good, the bad, and the ugly.

Because, let’s face it, no one is all good. So, you must learn to be confident in who you are right now.

Then we must accept ourselves. And true acceptance is love.

The best way to love ourselves is to embrace our faults and show ourselves compassion as we learn from our mistakes.

Not judge those mistakes or beat ourselves up for not being what we or society deems as ‘perfect’ or ‘good’.

But rather be kind to ourselves and lift ourselves up the way a friend would.

A person with a healthy Orange Ray (at least in respect to ‘self’) is at ease in their own skin. They’re aware of their imperfections and past mistakes. But they choose to accept and grow from them.

They actually like themselves exactly as they are right now. Knowing there’s always room to grow.

They respect and take care of their physical body without obsessing over it. And they have a healthy self-image and are not concerned with how others see them.

On the flip side, a person with blockage in the Sacral Chakra is overly concerned with how others view them and will judge themself harshly, abuse their body, or reject aspects of themself.

They tend to cling to, worship, or mimic the personality traits of others because they’re insecure and are uncomfortable with themselves.

They do all of this because they’re unaware of who they truly are.

Now, let’s dive deeper into the areas of our relationship with our ‘self’ that cause blockages within the Sacral Chakra.

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What Causes Blockages in Our Personal Identity

Self-Judgment

Your inner critic can cause serious blockage within your energy body.

It stems from childhood. Every criticism our parents, teachers, or other authority figures whispered in our impressionable little ear lives inside our subconscious mind.

We’ve internalized those judgments.

And now, that’s the toxic voice you hear in your head when you don’t measure up in some way or make a mistake.

This is not an attack on our parents. And it’s not an excuse to blame them for all of our self-image or self-acceptance issues.

They were, most likely, doing the best they knew how to do, at the level of consciousness they were at. Just as we are doing the best we know how to do, at the level we’re at.

But we grow up with strict rules as to how we should act. We’re then rewarded for our ‘good’ behaviors and punished for our ‘bad’ ones. All the while being trained to believe that perfection is good and mistakes are bad.

We must realize, though, that there is no such thing as perfection. And mistakes are how we grow. So, put down the gavel and be gentle on yourself for any self-perceived errors.

Low Self-Esteem

Are you constantly comparing yourself to others? Wishing you were someone else?

Do you have an endless list of things you’d like to change about yourself?

Are you overly sensitive to criticism? Or do you tend to shy away from social situations?

These are all indications of poor self-worth.

But really the only question you need to ask yourself is this…

Do you like yourself?

Genuinely. And as you are right now. Because if the answer is no, then you’re closing off the Sacral Chakra and stunting your spiritual growth.

When we feel like we’re ‘not enough’ or lacking in some way, it’s a sign that we are unaware of who we truly are — an aspect of the One Infinite Creator.

It’s ok to work on yourself, to grow, and become a better version of yourself. But you can’t come at it from a place of desperation or lack. Always needing to be someone other than who you are.

You must embrace the truth that you are whole and complete already. And love and accept who you are right now.

So, to unblock the energy at the orange ray level, it’s time to build up your self-confidence and learn to be comfortable in your own skin.

Unhealthy Body Image

Another aspect of our relationship with ourselves revolves around how we feel about our bodies.

When we have a negative body image, we restrict energy from flowing freely through the Orange Ray Energy Center.

In today’s society, we’re programmed to be consumers. This means the message ‘You are beautiful just the way you are’ is not the message we’re being force-fed.

Instead, marketers train us to feel bad about ourselves by bombarding us with images of unattainable beauty standards. They keep us stuck in an endless cycle of feeling as though there’s something wrong with us.

Or that we constantly need to improve or alter ourselves.

So, we obsess over our appearance, become excessively self-conscious about our physical attributes, and are overly critical of every little perceivable flaw.

We’re left feeling like we’re not enough. Not pretty enough. Not thin enough. Not young enough.

Not something enough.

Those feelings of insecurity block the Sacral Chakra. We’re not free to be ourselves. And we’re unable to live our lives because we’re constantly concerned with how others see us. Or if they like what they see.

In fact, eating disorders, addiction to plastic surgery, constant dieting, or abusing the body in any way are also indications of a blocked Orange Ray Energy Center.

Negative Self-Talk

We’ve become experts at tearing ourselves down and beating ourselves up until we feel that we’re not worthy of love.

And that unworthiness eats away at our confidence and our personal power.

So, observe your mental chatter.

Are the majority of your thoughts negative?

If so, it’s time to turn things around. Because when you focus on things you don’t like about yourself, it tends to bring them to the forefront of your attention (and everyone else’s).

Negative thoughts give birth to more negative thoughts. And when you bully yourself with all kinds of disapproving, self-criticizing thoughts on a daily basis, you create blockage in the Sacral Chakra.

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How to Clear and Heal Self-Image Distortions

Practice Forgiveness

Allow yourself to be imperfect. Allow yourself to make mistakes. You’re supposed to! That’s the nature of existence. To learn, grow, and evolve.

So, stop punishing yourself.

If you make a ‘mistake’ (by your standards or the world’s), show yourself some compassion. Embrace your flaws. Then forgive yourself and learn from that perceived misstep.

There’s no need to hold onto feelings of regret, guilt, or shame over the decisions we’ve made.

With every choice we make, we find ourselves at a crossroads. We can choose to go left or right. The path of service to self, or the path of service to other.

And every choice is an opportunity to redeem yourself by learning from the lesson that choice was presenting to you.

So, if you don’t like the choice you made, you have the power to choose differently next time. Allow yourself to do that, and then move on.

Let it go.

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Spend Time with Yourself

Really get to know yourself and learn to enjoy your own company. Discover who you are, what you like, what makes you tick, what your talents are, and what you can offer the world.

Explore what makes you you.

Being alone with ourselves allows us to peel back our layers. Stripping away the masks of who the world tells us we should be.

It also allows us to intimately get to know every part of ourselves. The parts we’ve been taught are good and those that we’ve been taught to hide.

But you shouldn’t stuff down the parts of yourself you don’t like. Nor should you shamefully bury ‘secret’ aspects of yourself because you’re afraid you might disappoint someone.

Instead, allow them to be there.

Accept them. And then work through them by relinquishing any negative beliefs or feelings of guilt you have about those aspects of yourself.

Meditation and self-inquiry are powerful tools in the quest to know the self. They train the mind to go deep within and connect with a higher power.

Allowing us to heal the distortions we have about ourselves and see ourselves as we really are.

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Cultivate a Positive Mental Diet

When we relax and allow life to flow through us, we become peaceful and actually feel good!

And that ‘good’ feeling opens the Orange Ray Chakra so that love/light can make its way up towards the heart.

So, by developing a positive attitude and focusing on the blessings in your life (instead of what you don’t like or don’t have), you will inevitably attract more blessings.

Your blessings will continue to grow and grow until you’ve completely changed your current reality. Because what you focus on expands.

Observing your thoughts, cultivating a daily habit of gratitude, and replacing negative mental chatter with positive affirmations are all great ways to improve your mental diet.

Develop a Positive Body Image

In our culture, we have a distorted view of what real beauty actually is. True beauty comes from the inside. And it starts with confidence.

To open your Sacral Chakra, build up your self-confidence by getting comfortable with your body. Accept it as it is…flaws and all. Stand in front of a mirror and compliment your uniquely beautiful, strong body.

Be kind to it. Treat it with honor and respect.

Your body is your temple. It’s the vehicle that houses your consciousness.

So, nourish it with a healthy diet, and take special care of it by giving it the physical activity and rest that it needs. Heck, pamper it and show it some love!

Because it’s the only one you get in this lifetime.

Affirmations and subliminals, if used properly, can work miracles in the self-confidence department by reprogramming your negative body image beliefs.

To balance the orange ray, we need to enjoy ourselves, our bodies, and our lives. Once we lay down the foundation of self-love and acceptance, we’re free to share those qualities with another.

Questions to Ask Yourself

How do you feel about yourself?
Do you enjoy your own company?
Do you feel you’re not worthy or not enough (in any way)?
What’s your internal dialog like?
Do you judge yourself harshly? Or do you show yourself compassion when you make a mistake?
Do you hold yourself to unachievable, high standards?
Are you constantly trying to improve or change yourself?
Do you tend to over-correct seemingly ‘negative’ parts of your personality or ignore them altogether?
Do you accept and embrace your flaws? Or are you overly critical?
Are you overly concerned about your appearance? Do you feel a need to look perfect?
Do you ever compliment yourself? Do you speak to yourself like you would speak to a friend?
How’s your relationship with your body? Do you cherish and respect it? Or punish and shame it?
Do you have healthy eating habits?
Are you grateful for the blessings you have in your life?
Do you generally look on the bright side? Or are your thoughts more often negative?

Our Personal Relationships with Others and the Orange Ray Center

We’re naturally attracted to certain people. We can’t help it. There are just some people we vibe with more than others.

And the people we’re drawn to are those that have a similar energy to our own. Our relationships with them tend to be harmonious and enjoyable.

But we all vibrate at different levels.

So, there are going to be people we encounter that don’t match our vibration.

And we may find it difficult to appreciate these people. But underneath it all, we are all inherently good. We are the Creator. And we are all one.

Remembering this oneness when relating to others we find ‘difficult’ or even ‘despicable’ is how we unblock the Sacral Chakra.

What Causes Blockages in Our Relationships

The orange ray is that influence or vibratory pattern wherein the mind/body/spirit expresses its power on an individual basis. Thus, power over individuals may be seen to be orange ray. This ray has been quite intense among your peoples on an individual basis. You may see in this ray the treating of other-selves as non-entities, slaves, or chattel, thus giving other-selves no status whatever.

– Law of One, session 32.2

Manipulation of Others

To keep the Orange Ray Chakra clear you must learn to enjoy others just as they are. Don’t try to change them or make them fit your standards of what you think they should be.

Instead, accept them for who they are.

Because manipulating others, for your own benefit or even if you think it’s for their own good, is a surefire way to block the orange-ray energies.

Judging Others

When we judge one another, we tend to narrow or even block the Sacral Chakra. Because we’re all aspects of the One Creator. And the Creator sees all of its creation as one.

There is no distinction.

Not one of its creations is ‘better’ or ‘worse’ than another. There are no ‘good’ or ‘bad’ people in the eyes of the Creator.

Just as there are no ‘mistakes.’ There are only opportunities to learn and grow.

And so, the misguided steps of others should be looked upon with compassion. Not judgment or blame.

No matter how wicked a person’s actions may seem.

Treating Others Like Objects

Another way to block the Orange Ray relates to the misuse of power over another individual.

For example, the enslavement of another, considering someone to be a piece of property, or mistreating others in a cruel or inhumane way.

This is considered service to self and of the negative path.

Rape, violation of another person in any way, and even cruelty toward animals are also ways in which other living beings are treated like objects.

Codependent Relationships

When we develop an excessive emotional or psychological reliance on another person, we create an imbalance within the Sacral Chakra.

Forming relationships with people that bring out the best in us or qualities we desire in and of itself is not bad. It’s great actually!

But are you clinging to that person because you believe you’re not whole and complete?

When you try to fill the hole you feel within yourself with another person or an aspect of them, the relationship and your attachment to them tend to be unhealthy.

How to Clear and Heal Our Personal Relationship Distortions

Relationships with others can be difficult. We’re not in control of the actions of others. So, anytime we’re dealing with another person it has the potential to not go the way we’d prefer.

People are not our puppets.

And they’re not objects that we should hold power over because we’re all equal.

So, in order to clear the Sacral Chakra, we must stop trying to change and control others.

Let Go of Control

Our relationships with those we’re close to, like family, good friends, or romantic partners, can be especially challenging.

There are bound to be arguments or disagreements. And they may, from time to time, do or say things that hurt your feelings.

Or maybe they have habits that really get under your skin.

But if you focus on that irritating habit or the thing that’s causing friction in the relationship, the problem will continue to grow.

It’s the Law of Attraction at work. What you are and what you focus your attention on is what you attract.

So, nip any disagreements in the bud before anger festers beneath the surface. And learn to find their quirks endearing rather than enraging.

It’s not actually their annoying habit that’s bothersome because all things within our experience are neutral.

It’s how you view it and react to it that is causing you to get upset. And you are in charge of your emotions. So, you have the power to change them.

And when it comes to strangers, acquaintances, or those we work with, refrain from trying to control or manipulate them to get what you want.

Instead of needing them to be different in some way, change your perspective of them.

Stop thinking that everyone has to be just like you or behave exactly how you want them to. Instead, look at what you can change about yourself in order to accept them just as they are.

That doesn’t mean you have to be a doormat. Set some healthy boundaries, but be polite and compassionate in dealing with them.

We must learn to enjoy people from all walks of life. And when we approach our relationships from a space of love and service to others, we tend to experience less emotional upset.

Things just seem to work themselves out effortlessly.

Release Judgement

Let go of the knee-jerk reaction to judge others for their mistakes or choices in life. Because there is no aspect within another person that is not alive within ourselves.

The world is just a mirror of what is going on inside of ourselves.

So, don’t look outside of yourself for someone else to point your finger at to blame. If something is showing up in your reality and triggering you, then realize that’s an aspect of yourself that you need to heal.

Remain present and mindful of each and every encounter you have with another individual.

If someone cuts you off in traffic, take a deep breath and remain calm. Instead of cursing at them or challenging them to a duel, show compassion for their unconscious behavior.

Or if you’re dealing with someone you find irritating or just can’t stand, mentally bless them instead of getting entangled in their negative energy.

Remember that they may have things going on in their life behind the scenes that you are unaware of.

A rude stranger may have just been fired or had their heart broken. A pushy co-worker may be lonely or just lost a loved one.

Or maybe they just had a really bad day, week, or even year.

You never know what’s going on in someone else’s world. So, cut them some slack.

Questions to Ask Yourself

How are your relationships with other people?
Do you find it hard to connect with another person?
Are your relationships filled with drama? Are they difficult?
Do you often judge others or hold them to high standards?
Do you show compassion when others make a mistake?
Do you try to manipulate or control the actions of others?
Are you quick to anger when someone does not act in a way you’d prefer them to act?
Do you feel a need to always be in control within the relationship?
Do you always need to be right or to have things your way?
Are you grateful for the blessings you have in your life?
Are you possessive of others? Or feel like they’re your property?
Do you treat others with respect? Or do you treat them like objects?

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Impact of Communication Devices and Distractions on Orange Ray

Questioner: What is the general overall effect of television on our society with respect to this catalyst?

Ra: I am Ra. Without ignoring the green-ray attempts of many to communicate via this medium such information, truth, and beauty as may be helpful, we must suggest that the sum effect of this gadget is that of distraction and sleep.

– Law of One, session 34.13

In a negative sense many of the gadgets among your peoples, that is what you call your communication devices and other distractions such as the less competitive games, may be seen to have the distortion of keeping the mind/body/spirit complex [person] unactivated so that yellow- and orange-ray activity is much weakened thus carefully decreasing the possibility of eventual green-ray activation.

– Law of One, session 34.12

We’re so busy looking for ways to numb ourselves from the stresses of our day, that we can’t be bothered to look up from our screens to see there’s another person in the room.

Let alone communicate with them in a meaningful way.

Instead, we’re endlessly trying to escape our relationships and the work they entail. Distracting ourselves with television, our phones, video games, or social media instead of communicating and connecting with the people that are right there next to us.

We’re together, but not together.

And we keep coming up with new ways to ‘distance’ ourselves from one another.

These devices keep us in an unconscious state. And their purpose is to distract us from life, from what’s really going on, and from why we’re really here.

And why are we really here?

We’re here to interact and connect with other people.

How Our Modern-Day Distractions Block the Sacral Chakra

But somewhere along the line, we decided it’s too much work to have a genuine conversation with someone, listen to what’s on their mind, or deal with issues within the relationship.

True communication seems to be a thing of the past.

We’re no longer building relationships. Instead, we’re blocking our Orange Ray Energy Center by distracting ourselves from them.

I’m not saying you should get rid of all your hand-held devices, stop watching TV or delete all your social media accounts.

There’s nothing wrong with enjoying these forms of entertainment.

Just be conscious of your use of these distractions. Don’t use them to tune out what’s going on within yourself. And don’t let them become a priority over your relationships.

Questions to Ask Yourself

Can you be alone with your own thoughts? Without distracting devices?
Do you spend quality time connecting with others without these distracting devices?
Do you unwind at the end of the day with TV or devices rather than genuinely communicating with others?
Have TV, video games, social media, or other distracting devices taken over your free time?
Do you use television or devices as a babysitter for your children?
What about as an excuse not to engage with those around you?
Do you consciously unplug from these distractions throughout the day in order to reconnect with yourself and others?

Sexual Energy Transfer at the Orange Ray Level

In the last post, we discussed that sex is a transfer of energy from one being to another. We also learned that sexual energy starts at the Red Ray and rises up through each ascending energy center until it reaches an energy center that’s blocked.

Red Ray energy transfer is random and has to do only with your reproductive system. This is the most basic level of sexual energy transfer.

But when you genuinely care for the other person, the energy travels up the pipeline activating the Orange Ray.

And as long as there are no blockages, the energy will continue up to the Yellow Ray. And so forth.

Although if both people are blocked at the Orange Ray, both will have an intensified hunger for sex.

Their increased sex drive is actually an unconscious seeking to unblock the stuck flow of energy.

On the other hand, it’s also entirely possible for sexual energy transfer to affect two people at different levels or energy centers.

So, if one person is blocked at the Orange Ray but the other vibrates in love (meaning they’re unblocked Red through Green Ray), the person blocked at Orange Ray will crave more sex. While the person with an activated Green Ray will only have the energy with which it began.

The green-ray person will, however, slightly polarize toward service to others.

How We Become Blocked at the Sacral Chakra

In terms of sexual energy transfer, blockages at the Orange Ray level include:

• Using sex as a means of exercising power over another (like rape)
• Manipulating or pressuring someone in any way to have sex (even if you’re in a relationship with that person)
• Pleasure in causing or receiving pain during sex (like S&M)
• Engaging in master/slave role-playing (like BDSM)
• Making false promises of love in exchange for sex
• And instances of emotional and physical abuse

These kinds of manipulative behavior not only polarize the perpetrator or ‘doer’ in service to self but also block the Heart Chakra.

And such experiences can lead to problems within our relationships. It can leave the person on the receiving end with a distorted and damaged self-image and toxic feelings toward sex.

How Sexual Energy Can Block Spiritual Progression

The green ray activation is always vulnerable to the yellow or orange ray of possession, this being largely yellow ray but often coming into orange ray. Fear of possession, desire for possession, fear of being possessed, and desire to be possessed: these are the distortions which will cause the deactivation of green ray energy transfer.

– Law of One, session 32

According to The Law of One Material, even after you’ve activated the Heart Chakra (or Green Ray), there’s always a chance it may become deactivated if you let fear creep into the relationship — which will block the Orange Ray.

Without an activated Green Ray, you stunt your spiritual growth, and there’s no graduating to the 4^th Density.

So, always keep in mind the dynamics of the relationship between you and your partner.

We’ve already discussed that sex is a transfer of energy. That means if you or your partner have a blocked Orange Ray, it has the potential to impact you emotionally (causing blockage within your energy pipeline).

So, whatever your partner has going on within their energy field will affect what’s going on in your own energy field.

Viewing someone or yourself as an object, being afraid of being (or desiring to be) possessed or controlled by another person, dominating someone, the need for power in the relationship and not wanting that leadership challenged, or being submissive will lead to blockage of the Sacral Chakra.

In order to evolve to green-ray sexuality, both people must see one another as equals.

They must give in to love and have no fear of being vulnerable within the relationship. Possessing respect and compassion for each other. Truly seeing the other as an extension of yourself.

How to Clear and Heal Orange Ray Blockage

Our understanding of karma is that which may be called inertia. Those actions which are put into motion will continue using the ways of balancing until such time as the controlling or higher principle which you may liken unto your braking or stopping is invoked. This stoppage of the inertia of action may be called forgiveness. These two concepts are inseparable.

– Law of One, Session 34.4

Forgiveness is the key to clearing the Sacral Chakra.

As Ra states in The Law of One, forgiveness is a way of balancing our emotions and the actions that have been put into motion. These actions are our karma.

So, forgiveness is how we clear that karma.

A lack of forgiveness, however, keeps us trapped in emotions of rage, anger, resentment, or despair. That means we must forgive those that have hurt us and ourselves as well.

When you forgive someone, it doesn’t mean you approve of what they did. And it’s not something you’re doing for them.

You’re actually doing it for yourself.

You’re freeing yourself from the anger, hurt, and resentment you feel toward them and whatever happened.

Most people walking around on this planet are unconscious. So, chances are the people that hurt you don’t know what they’re doing.

And in fact, most of the time we are all unaware of how our actions can impact others in our relationships. I’m sure there are times you’ve hurt someone and had no clue.

So, practice forgiveness. Of yourself. And of others.

It allows our energy body to remain clear so that Infinite intelligent energy can then rise up through our energy centers freely flowing up into the Heart Chakra.

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Questions to Ask Yourself

Do you use your beauty or looks to manipulate others?
Do you use emotional blackmail to control your partner?
Is your heart involved in your relationship?
Are you afraid of commitment? Of being possessed or controlled by someone?
Are you possessive or controlling in your relationships?
Do you want to be possessed or controlled? Are you submissive?
Do you respect the opposite sex and see them as equals?
Do you see your partner as your equal? Or do you need to be the leader in the relationship?
Do you have an unhealthy codependent relationship with one of your parents?
Do you have an unhealthy codependent relationship with your partner?
Have you experienced a traumatic sexual encounter?
Do you have lingering feelings of anger or resentment toward the opposite gender?
Do you manipulate or lie to others in order to get them to have sex with you?
Has someone manipulated or lied to you in order to get you to have sex with them?

5 Ways to Balance the Orange Ray Chakra

In the Law of One Material, Ra assures us the best way to balance and clear blockages within our chakras is through the practice of emotional balancing, meditation, contemplation, and reflection.

But since I’ve already discussed these methods in my previous articles, I’ll only briefly recap how to review your day and balance your emotions.

We’ll also take a look at a few other powerful techniques that will help balance your Orange Ray Chakra.

If you’d like to learn more about these techniques, be sure to read the first article in this series Chakras According to The Law of One: Overview of the Seven Energy Centers.

1. Daily Review + Emotional Balancing

Emotional balance means not fighting or struggling against life and the things happening all around us. In other words, it means being in a state of great acceptance and love.

That’s why we’re here. To learn the lessons of love.

And that’s what all of life’s catalysts (or experiences) are attempting to teach us. The whole purpose of this density is to provide us with catalysts moment by moment.

Each one is a test to see how well we can accept and surrender to what is.

And once there’s a deep acceptance and receptivity to the catalysts you encounter, you no longer have painful emotional responses. So, life no longer provides you with that particular lesson or catalyst.

You’ve learned the lesson it was trying to teach you and can move on.

It’s important to note that balance is not indifference or objectivity. Indifference is detachment from the normal flow of emotions. But rather, balance is finely-tuned compassion that sees all things as love.

Resisting or repressing any of our thoughts or emotions is a form of separation. As are avoidance and aversion.

And choosing separation over love only holds us back from evolving to the next level.

What to do…

Throughout your day, as you experience events or people that trigger a strong emotional response, stop and observe what you’re feeling.

Be a witness to your emotions.

If you’re angry, frustrated, or hurt, it’s ok. You’re allowed to feel those emotions. So, don’t stuff them down or ignore that something (or someone) triggered you.

As long as you’re able to remain calm, you can try to address those emotions in the moment.

But if not, wait until you can be alone.

And then allow yourself to experience your feelings. Fully and completely. (In a safe way as to not cause harm to another, physically or emotionally.)

So, if that means you need to excuse yourself or wait until you can find a private space to cry, scream into a pillow, or whatever it is you need to do…then do it.

And if you’re unable to catch yourself before you react, be gentle with yourself. It’s going to take time to unlearn old habits.

But once you release the physical energy of that emotion that’s trapped in your body, consciously discover its polarity in the mind. In other words, figure out what the opposite emotion of what you’re feeling is.

And then balance that emotion with an equal amount of the opposing positive emotion.

The best way to do this is to review your day either during meditation or every evening before bed.

Mentally replay the events of the day in your mind. Ask yourself what you could have done differently. Then journal about it and set intentions for how you would like to react next time.

And Here’s a Simple Sacral Chakra Healing Meditation to Try…

Envision an orange lotus or orange ball of light in the area of the second chakra in the pelvis area. Hold that image in your mind for a few minutes while breathing deeply.

Or If You’d Like to Balance All Your Energy Ray Centers…

Check out this profoundly powerful Unity Consciousness Meditation (inspired by the Law of One teachings) that I created to help you activate, clear, and balance each of your energy ray centers as you connect with higher dimensions and intelligent infinity.

RELATED: Ultimate Meditation Space Guide: How to Create a Sanctuary

2. Ho’oponopono Meditation

If you’re having trouble forgiving someone that hurt you, try practicing Ho’oponopono—a powerful Hawaiian prayer of forgiveness. Picture the person that you’re having a hard time forgiving in your mind’s eye, and simply repeat, “I’m sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you.” And that’s it.

Here’s a guided meditation for the Ho’oponopono Hawaiian healing technique, if you’d like to give it a try.

🌟 Want More? For more information on how to forgive someone, even when it seems impossible, be sure to check out How to Forgive in 3 Easy Steps: Your Guide to Freedom.

And to learn why forgiveness is such a gift and how it can benefit your life, read my other article on the topic here. It’s like the sidekick to the article above. Be sure to check them both out to truly set yourself free.

3. Contemplation + Journaling

Refer back to all the “Questions to ask yourself” sections above and pull out your journal to record your answers. Do you have any areas of concern?

If so, it’s time to work through those issues.

What to do…

By discovering what issues you have in regards to your relationships, you can begin to heal them. So, make a plan, set intentions, and record your progress in your journal.

It can also be extremely helpful to use affirmations to rewire our brains and shift our thoughts regarding ourselves and our relationships with others.

Write them down each day for a minimum of 30 days. And then repeat them to yourself morning, noon, and night.

🌟 Want More? For more information on how to effectively use affirmations and create a daily routine, be sure to check out my How to Manifest A Specific Person With The Law of Attraction article and follow the instructions in Step #3 ‘Change Your Mindset’.

And click here for more information on how affirmations reprogram your subconscious and how to use them in the most powerful way.

A Few Affirmations to Get You Started…

Every life experience is an opportunity to grow and is for my greater good.
I’ve learned from and feel blessed by all my past experiences.
I release all my past experiences and am ready to embrace new experiences.
Every day is a new beginning.
I love who I am. And I love my life.
I respect and honor my body.
I value my relationships with others and I love connecting with people.
I accept the things I cannot change and possess the strength to change the things I can.

4. Practice Self-Love

Come on, guys! It’s time to find the love you seek within yourself!!

Self-love is a skill just like learning to ride a bike. Except most of our parents didn’t teach us how to do it when we were kids.

Probably because they were never taught. But it’s a crucial skill.

Maybe even the most important one we’ve got at our disposal when it comes to building relationships with other people…and being truly happy.

As we discussed, we block the Sacral Chakra when we have low self-esteem, judge ourselves too harshly, and are unforgiving with ourselves. And if that’s how you treat yourself, is it no wonder your relationships with others tend to be problematic?

You can’t attract love from another if you do not love yourself. So first, work on developing a deep love and respect for yourself. Accept yourself as you are. And then that love and acceptance will radiate out into your relationships with others.

What to Do…

The best way to start practicing self-love is to observe how you speak to yourself. Use affirmations to build up your confidence and change your mental chatter.

Another powerful method to lift your mood and how you view yourself is to start appreciating all the wonderful things in your life with a gratitude journal.

One last tip I’ll leave you with is to improve your relationship with your body. Show it some love with exercise, good nutrition, and a bit of pampering from time to time.

Now, I want you to get up every morning, stand in front of a mirror, and repeat these affirmations to that beautiful being staring back at you.

A Few Affirmations to Get You Started…

I am enough!
I am worthy!
I am important!
I am beautiful just the way I am!
I am whole and complete, right now!
I love my body!
I’m the only me in the world and my imperfections make me unique! And I cherish them!
It’s ok to make mistakes. I’m learning and growing every day!
I accept all parts of myself. Even the parts that others may not like or have tried to change.
I love being me and I wouldn’t want to be anyone else!
I am amazing!

🌟 Want More? To dive deeper into how to cultivate self-love, be sure to check out How To Love Yourself: Self-Love Is Your Key To Happiness. There are tons of resources, self-guided meditations, exercises, videos, and more!

YOU MAY ALSO LIKE: Improve Your Life and Well-Being With A Gratitude Journal That Actually Works

5. Shadow Work

In order to experience self-love, you need to heal your demons. In other words, the deepest parts of yourself. Those parts that seem icky and unlovable.

And shadow work is a way to uncover, integrate, and heal these aspects of our persona that linger in the shadows.

We may even be completely unaware of these aspects of ourselves. The subconscious is a tricky beast, and it may be hiding these shadow aspects from you.

Or perhaps you’re well aware of your shadow self but refuse to acknowledge it because it doesn’t fit the image you want to project.

So, you stuff it down only to have it rear its nasty little head when you get triggered.

But we are all things.

No one is all good. Each of us contains the most beautiful of qualities and the worst. You can’t have one without the other. Every yin has a yang. That is the nature of our dualistic reality.

Instead of casting out what we don’t like, we must balance ourselves.

Because balance is the key to mastering this density.

What to Do…

First, notice what things trigger an emotional response within you. Those types of strong reactions reveal your wounds and your shadow self. And look for patterns in your behaviors, relationships, the people you attract, and your experiences.

Whip out your journal and ask yourself…

What about yourself do you not like? Or wish you could change?
What parts of yourself do you judge?
What parts of yourself are you afraid of?
Were you completely accepted by those around you as a child?
What was expected of you?
What emotions and behaviors were judged by your parents?

Once you’ve identified these seemingly ‘negative’ parts of yourself, witness what part they play in your life.

Then, accept them and allow them to be there. Because to open the Orange Ray, you must love yourself.

All of yourself.

Not just the good parts (or the parts that you or society has decided are ‘good’). But even the ‘bad’ parts that you may not like at this very moment.

So, learn to love all of yourself in spite of your faults. The way a mother loves her child regardless of their quirks or how much trouble they get into. It is an unwavering, unconditional love that can never be taken away.

Guided meditations and hypnosis can also be tremendously helpful in healing and integrating your shadow self.

🌟 Want More? To learn more about Shadow Work, check out my article Your Guide to Shadow Work: What Is It, Why It’s Important, and How to Get to Know Your Dark Side.

More Powerful Resources + Tools

🌟Be sure to visit my YouTube channel for tons of healing (and powerful) meditation music, affirmations, and subliminal videos designed to empower you, raise your vibration, and help you create the reality of your dreams!

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That’s All, Folks!

I think that’s enough to digest for now. Up next, we’ll dive deep into the Solar Plexus Chakra.

Until then…

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